Randomly Kassiopeia

This is a perfect poem for what happens during a v...

2010-01-31T21:49:20.043-08:00

This is a perfect poem for what happens during a verbal, mental and/or emotional assault. I know that you know that this is exactly what a controller wants to create. They want you to be erased, they want you to be confused and unable to pinpoint the "cause" of your emotions so they can shrug it off, tell you you're crazy.

Sometimes the best thing to do, instead of fighting back, is to walk away as soon as you feel the hurt, pain, shock and anger. The explanation? "I am not going to do this right now. I'll be back in a little bit." And then don't say another word until you've stopped the wheel spinning in yourself.

I love this poem.

You are strong and capable of doing the hard stuff...

2009-10-23T15:51:49.471-07:00

You are strong and capable of doing the hard stuff. After all, haven't you been doing the hard stuff for a very long time?

In time, with practice, everything that is hard becomes easy. One day, you'll celebrate this process.

Congratulations! You're a beautiful, responsible, capable soul. I love you, I love your spirit. Onward, RandomlyK - I'm here for you; ask for what you need so I can do it for you.

You're in my thoughts and prayers, sweetie. Y...

2009-08-16T12:08:03.240-07:00

You're in my thoughts and prayers, sweetie. You know I support you, no matter the decision you make, and I'm here to help in any way that I can. (((hugs)))

You are all those things and more!!! We were cut f...

2009-08-15T16:38:38.354-07:00

You are all those things and more!!! We were cut from the same cloth, you say how much you see those things in me. Now it is time for you to look at yourself and see what people on the other side see and not the ghosts of your past.
Like I have said before, some time you will need to collect what you can carry and open the door.
I will be waiting on the other side.

Sometimes you just have to walk away. As hard and...

2009-07-25T17:46:36.083-07:00

Sometimes you just have to walk away.

As hard and scary as it seems, "you take what you can carry on the bus and don't look back." Mom

But you will never be alone...you have an Army behind you.

one more thing...have you discovered http://www.sp...

2009-07-12T09:44:20.398-07:00

one more thing...have you discovered http://www.sparkpeople.com/ yet? I like it better than WW "online only" option. There's no meeting, but there are plenty of message boards and it is completely free.

My husband is a terrorist too. He lies in wait for...

2009-07-12T09:38:44.229-07:00

My husband is a terrorist too. He lies in wait for the right time to attack and my constant vigilance gives me no rest.

So, what battle strategies work against terrorism?

We're already on their home turf (just as our US military has a foothold in the Middle East).

The terrorists' attacks are beginning to be foreseen (just as the terrorists in the M.E. freshest onslaught was predicted by the commanding general over there).

But what comes after gaining a foothold and foreseeing the attacks? Is defense the best offense in these scenarios or is there a better way?

I wonder if leaving the home (or country) is really the best defense. After all, leaving the terrorist to his own devices does not guarantee OUR OWN safety. We as wives (or as a country) will remain attached to the terrorist due to previous ties (like children...or commitments to a friendly nation like Israel).

Maybe if you and I can figure out a real solution, we can become consultants to the military! At the very least, we can live freely and healthfully and joyfully on our home turf.